Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Grandpa Benny & Grandma Stella

It has taken a few days to bring myself to post anything from the weekend. It was draining - but a good weekend spent with Mark & Brenda.

Mark and Brenda flew in on Thursday. We went to Barbacoa for lunch and then headed down to Burley. Mark and Brenda took a ride down the Snake River with Danny in the boat. Then we went to The 610 to pick up grandpa. That was interesting to say the least. We headed back to Danny's and all went out to dinner at The Upper Crust.
Brenda snatched grandpa and put him in their bedroom for the evening.... not to be seen again til morning.

We got up pretty early on Friday and were surprised to see Danny had brought back coffee for us!!! It was so sweet (he doesn't drink coffee!)

We were so out of it when we left for the cemetery. The only thing we remembered to bring with us was Grandpa! We left the memory books and the flowers at Danny's. Luckily Danny & Beneta had not left the house yet, and were able to grab everything we left behind.

Brenda and I had to be at the cemetery early to meet Dave. He actually brought Grandma Stella out in a Hurst! The grave site was so nicely decorated, and our Tia Inez sent beautiful flowers. We read poems and everyone shared memories. We laughed and we cried. At one point I even heard Dave laugh in the background. We really wanted this to be all about keeping the memories of them alive and remembering how Grandma, Grandpa and our dad had touched all of our lives. We asked Susie if she would say a prayer - and it was just beautiful.
My dad is buried next to my grandpa's step-father, Tiburscio Urigoitia. Inez said they called him Begonia.
We placed flowers at the baby's grave as well.
I took a picture of the sun set over the Snake River the night we laid our grandparents to rest. I was left with the hope that our grandparents and father would be proud of us.
Our Grandma Stella would never let us say goodbye - not in person or on the phone. So we didn't say goodbye that day, just a very tearful..... I love you, and I will miss you - until we are together again.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Happy Feet

I love what this picture represents.... Kids upstairs watching movies.

I think the happiest feet are the feet that belong in the white tennies (Garrett's), because if you noticed, there are only one pair of girl shoes.... and the feet that belong in those shoes are attached to a girl who came over to see Garrett.


Apple Crisp

YUM! I think this was the best apple crisp I have ever made! I am not sure if it was because I used apples from our tree in the backyard or if it was the sprinkle of cinnamon over the apples, or if it is because I made it with love... (ha), or if it was because I used the last apples on the tree.... well there are three left, but they are for the birds - literally. They come by to much.

I have enjoyed having the apple tree in our yard. It reminds me of my Grandpa Hellewell and his mom - my Great Grandma Hellewell. She had several apple trees in her yard. We loved going out and picking them with my Aunts Susie, & Julie. I use to be bothered by the apples with worm holes. My Grandpa would laugh and say.... ohhhh they don't eat much! And then he would say, you know what is worse than finding an apple with a worm? An apple with only half a worm.


Friday, September 19, 2008

Happy 20th Birthday Kristen!!!



Can you believe our baby is 20???? When Kristen was born, Grandma & Grandpa Hellewell came to California a couple of days before my due date. (I actually had her on my due date). Grandpa told me that they were not going home until she was born (no pressure there...). Grandpa also told me that he wanted a blonde haired, blue eyed baby girl born on his birthday. (again...no pressure there...). So.... it ended up that I had her the day before his birthday, and she had a full head of dark brown hair! He got a laugh telling the story..... "What I asked for was a blonde haired blue eyed baby girl born on my birthday and what I got was a brown haired, blue eyed baby girl born the day before my birthday".

Some interesting facts about Kristen's birth order:
  • She is the first born child of the first born child of the first born child on both sides of my family
  • She is the first born daughter of the first born daughter of the first born daughter on my mom's side of the family
  • She is the first grandchild on both sides of my family
  • She is the first great grandchild on both sides of my family
  • Her middle name goes back 3 generations (all belonging to the first borns)

Monday, September 15, 2008

Moline's Day 2

It was another amazing evening! Inez invited us to dinner with them tonight. She told me her sister Flora would be with them. When we arrived I was pleased to find out that Rick and Donna were there! Flora is my Grandpa Benny's other sister - Rick is Flora's son, and Donna is Rick's wife. Tom had no idea I had a big family on the Moline side. It has been so much fun talking and laughing with them. Inez made a toast to Benny & Stella . Made me sad that they are not here.....
During dinner Inez got up and put her arms around Rick and laughed. It was the first time since 1981 that I had felt so close to my Grandpa Benny. Her mannerisms are so much like his, I had to fight back the tears.

I didn't realize what I have been missing out on.

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Blast from the Moline Past

Phone rings on Saturday with a 408 area code.... I could never have guessed who was on the phone - even if given a multiple choice option. It was my Grandpa Benny's sister Inez. I have not seen her or talked to her since I was about 12 years old. She got my number from my Grandma Stella's sister in law. Inez was here visiting her family and thought she would give me a call. I was so thrilled! We have kind of lost touch with my Grandpa's side of the family. I told Tom that if she looks like my grandpa - I'm gonna cry. Well - she looked so much like him! I am so glad she reached out! We laughed, she cried - we told a couple of stories. I can't wait to see her again. I just got off the phone with my sister - told her we need to take a trip to San Jose to see Inez.... and that Inez said she makes a mean egg nog!

Here are a couple of pictures. The first is of Inez and me, the second is of Inez and her husband Ken.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Cat bath!


We love our baby kitty. Yes that might as well be her name because that is how we call her. She is a foofy kitty with long black fur. She does a good job of keeping her self clean most of the time but she likes being out side with the big kitty. So she lounges and rolls in stuff she shouldn't.That's where the bad part comes in. I discovered last Saturday that she had fur balls or knots close to her skin on both sides of her hips. Not just one or two but many on each side. I wanted to shave her but we don't have a shaver that will work for her. So Shanna and I clipped the knots out and then Shanna decided she needed to bathe the kitty.

Now I am not sure Shanna has ever bathed a cat before so this was new to me. And when I came in she had hold of each end of the cat trying to get her in the water. It was funny to see but I don't have a picture of that. Now the sad yet funny part is the poor cat lost its hold on the side of the sink and went in but not just in she went in head first. That was when I asked Shanna if she had bathed a cat before and told her "I think the other end is suppose to go in the water". I laughed and she said "I KNOW THAT!". So no kitty is not impressed with her experience and really wants out plus she thinks mama is trying to drowned her. After seeing the attempted drowning andn the cats expressions I thought I better photograph this. Here are a few pictures of the cat before she was finished.


Baby Kitty "You are only doing this because I don't have front claws"

"Oh BLEEP let me out of here. No not head first again."
















"Just wait I will get my revenge"

So as you can see the kitty was less than impressed or thrilled about this experience. I hope you have enjoy the virtual experience as much as we enjoyed the real deal.

I wish you all a happy day and most excellent week.

Tom

Saturday, August 30, 2008

Labor Day Weekend

Tom flew out Friday morning to visit his sister in Sacramento, and Janalee flew in Friday night to visit me!

Saturday morning we went to the Farmer's Market downtown, followed by shopping for a wedding gift for a wedding we are going to tonight, lunch, more shopping, dropped Kristen off at the Boise State football game, and now.... it is off to get ready for the wedding. Here is a picture of Janalee at the Farmer's Market. Yes those are doughnuts - but we brought most of them back for Garrett.
Here are a few pictures from the wedding. It was held at the Boise Train Depot. It was a fun night!


A little windy!View of Boise from the top of the tower.
After the wedding - getting ready to watch movies (but it was actually Shanna falling asleep and Jan watched the movie)
We made some jewelry on Sunday. What a mess!!! But so worth it! Janalee really got the hang of it and made a really cool necklace and bracelet.Sitting outside chatting while we were waiting for our table.

Monday, August 25, 2008

The patio from the beginning

Hello All,

So the patio posts below give you a sense of what we are doing, and even a partial shot of what we want in the end. But what you don't really see is the larger picture and what it looked like when we started. So I found some shots of when this all started. So this first shot show a couple truck loads of rocks stacked along the fence. I brought in a lot of rocks as Shanna said and you will see.




In this long shot across the back you can see the patio before the rocks, when the tree was small and piles of rocks in the back ground. Each trip out was always hot well above 90 and it took 85 miles of driving one way to get them. I had several different friends go out and help. We loaded everything from small rocks to big rocks that took two men a lot of effort to move. Some of the fun was found in retrieving the rocks. We made a mess out there a little too. Steve is still asking me when I am ready to go back. He seems to like it out there a lot. Said it's a good man's trip. I will likely need to make one trip to retrieve the more common and thinner stone like oakly stone. This will be needed to create retaining walls and boundaries as it's pretty uniform in shape.

This picture is of the corner of the yard yes those rocks go up about 2 feet high and some are large. The largest rocks have still yet to be placed in that special place in the yard. You see each of the special rocks has a shape or coloring something very unique and not common to the other rocks, unlike the strained muscles each rock shares with all who helped. It must just be a weird morbid thing guys share when it comes to rocks. We all like to roll them down then hill and watch what they do, or as boys and even grown boys the funnest thing to do out there is find a ledge and try to make it collapse. Umm yah some of those events caused me to run really fast like a bunny because i was the one pulling on the key stone to make it all fall. But only minor scrapes and bruises so I will return another day to do it again.

You can see in the next photo the island took up some of the large rocks just to keep the willow tree in soil. Those rocks are still there just hidden by more patio and a much larger willow tree.

This photo shows a small willow tree and a different angle of the patio pad. Now this pad has 5 yards of road mix that I moved from the front tot he back yard, and then ran a compactor on it to be sure we had a good foundation. Pay attention to that willow tree, it doesnt look like that anymore.

Let's pause for a moment. My experience does not include this project. Meaning I have never undertaken something this large or complex of a project in my yard let alone for pay. I have seen a few shows like Shanna did but basically put this together from my a picture in my head.

The photos that follow will demonstrate how intense the placement of the rocks are.
This next picture you see shows you how I started on this thing. I started in the center with some large rocks. Well after a winter and spring went by that process was determined not to be the best method. I needed solid lines to follow and something to start us off right. So I moved to the edge of the patio and worked from there placing and leveling rocks.

Remember the rocks in the pictures above are just piled up in the flower beds. So as we went along trying to figure this out we would start searching for a certain shape and flatness. Now the piles have changed to like rows of rocks on their sides and are smaller.

To get that pergola out on this crazy thing I had to some extra digging and concrete work. I tried to be precise but concrete doesn't always want to be agreeable. I had one of those moments. I had to dig holes almost 3 feet down to get a good solid base for this pergola to anchor too. I also had to create a form that the base of the pergola would fit over. Well that's the part that didn't go as planned. I measured the wrong piece and I discovered a cross member inside the pillar that was in the way of the whole thing setting down on the peers and being able to bolt it all down. Now comes out the concrete saw and blades. This is where I learned how to saw rocks which I am still doing to fit the patio floor together. Ahh what a much better way to get the rock you want to fit where you need it. So lets look at these peers.

Remember this small square looking thing was a pain to control and goes 3 feet down. After tonight's winds I am not worried about it coming out of the ground or folding over. I did a good job.

So how did I look after all this work? A little hot and tired.

















And the Big Kitty at the end of the day? Oh and all our animals love that tree. I never thought we could put something in the yard they all would enjoy.












So as I kept hammering away at this project it took on small changes over time. Here is the last few photos before I go to bed and end this blog.

This is a near ground level shot showing you the peers I built and some of the rocks coming in to place. Below is the same view point just a higher elevation. You can see how I am trying to define my boundaries and fill in the gaps. And how much more has yet to be done. Ugh!

















Now once I finish this crazy thing I want to enjoy the fire place out on a cool Autumn evening. Then go in and work on things like these.


The red and black one started out a ying-yang pendant. You know it's about balance. Well the ying didn't agree with the yang so I had to change what I was making. I thought I would implode it a bit and then I thought what would happen if i let the color just run a bit. So I ended up with something like a mushroom cloud. The next pendant was made from a deep very deep blue that almost looked purple or black before I put it in the flame. I knew what I wanted since I just made the other pendant. I wanted to take another shot at a jelly fish. So I made the body of the fish and started on the tenticles. Now this part is not easy and has not by no means ben perfected in my skills. I did start with a black color for tenticles and added a amber green or purple to it. So that ghosting color is the amber. It turned out pretty cool. I really do enjoy creating with glass. It's a bit easier on my back and body most of the time. But land scaping has been in my life for 20 years and my dream was to have a yard similar to the feel of a park where I wouldn't need to leave it to have that comfortable feeling. Our new yard is taking on the shape and will take another 2-4 years before it is mature and perfected. But it will get there and it will be something to enjoy. I thank God daily for the many talents He has given me. Through Him I have wisdom beyond my years and far more talents than I know what to do with. I hope to one day put it all together in service for Him. I suppose it's arguable now if I am in service or not. Some days I think I am and somedays I feel a bit selfish. I know my landscaping is something that has always brought beauty to a location that was bare. This must be pleasing to more than me. And now with the glass works going, I hope to inspire others and expose them to a God who takes us to pinnacles we might not have even imagined.

Well my brain has stopped. That means bed time. So I wish you all the very best. May you find God and may he open your minds and hearts to Him and what he has instore for you. What a wonderful like I have lived walking with God here on earth. I can't imagine what heaven will be like and the thought of eternity takes my breath away. I love each and every one of you even if I don't know you at this time. It's been a real expreience and treasure to become a part of this family. I have never belonged to a group so large, it's fun. I also have discovered living through you all with our kids. I missed out on some good things with children and now I am enjoying every experience shared and every moment with all the nieces and nephews. It's been a lot of fun. I hope we all can stay close and make time for get togethers becuase I can tell you life is short my friends and unscripted. We never know what is next and who might not be with us tomorrow. So I encourage you to live each day like it's your last and as though you are being watched and could be someones hero. You will be amazed who is watching at a distance.
I gotta go, this is getting long. That's what happens when I don't use the cell phone, I type novels.

Good nite,

Tom

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